You may not ask where your date lives nor where he/she works.
Since these mundane, repetitive questions are what most people talk about when first meeting, we're giving you permission to talk about something else. Take the opportunity to get a glimpse of who your date really is - not just what he/she does for a living. Have a fresh conversation. You'll have the chance to talk about what you do for fun, your hobbies, maybe even your dreams......where you last went on vacation or how your life would change if you won the lottery.

Do not ask for your date's phone number, address or last name.
The speeddating concept is all about meeting people in a brief, secure, anonymous way. You are not allowed to ask anyone for his/her contact information. This includes their phone number, name, e-mail address, business card, or their address.

Be respectful and courteous. Turn off your pagers and cell phones.
You are not allowed to ask sexually explicit questions, use lewd language, or say anything that might be interpreted as threatening or as sexual harassment.
If you are sitting across from someone you're not attracted to, please remember that they still have a story to tell. Ask questions.
At the end of any date, it is courteous to thank the other person.
Be respectful and courteous to others.
Please turn off your cell phones or pagers.  It is impolite and disrupts the event if you answer a call in the middle of a date.

Don't tell the other person if you want to see him again or not.
We're trying to remove as much of the pressure and hassles as possible. There's no pressure to let your date know if you want to see him/her again - feel free to reject or accept whomever you want anonymously on the scorecard.

If you check "yes", you're committing to a phone call or email if there is a match.
When you receive a mutual match, the decent thing to do is to contact that person - even if you've changed your mind or you want to date someone else first. In those cases, simply let your other matches know that you are busy dating someone else right now - but if you become free you will contact them. That's it - simple and courteous.

If you enjoyed the conversation with your date - indicate "yes" that you'd like to see them again
Often participants believe sparks must fly within the first 5-10 minutes or there's no potential. This just isn't true.....it often takes a few dates for chemistry to develop. So ask yourself, "Did I enjoy talking with this person?" And if the answer is yes, keep in touch with them and decide later whether you are ready to actually date them!